
It wasn't so long ago that most children were raised to be confident individuals. But recently a new kind of parent has emerged who can be detrimental to the healthy development of their children. These are the parents who tend to over-parent their children.
We also turned up the heat on each other. Parents now seem to regard over-parenting as a sign of good parenting. If you don't over-parent your child, you may be viewed by others as being a poor or neglectful parent, even as a parent who is willing to endanger her child.
There's a lot to think about in this article. About how to raise kids to be able to arrive at a solution to a problem, allowing them to earn money rather than simply be handed an allowance, letting them try out strategies and even (gasp) fail at times...Being a helicopter parent is not going to produce a self-reliant adult. Even babies learn to amuse themselves if you stop artificially stimulating them every minute.
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